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Acting Overly Queeny Is Not A Matter For The Law

Hooray for flamboyant sissies.

June 9, 2008

Forced Feminization

Shaming a male by forcing him to engage in transvestitism or crossdressing.

March 16, 2008

Shamed She-Male

There is a subculture of closeted bisexual transvestites.

March 5, 2008

TV Hostage

Transvestite fiction.

He's Older and Femme

Imaging have a faded queen, somewhat nelly, fem gay man for a lover.

March 4, 2008

Transvestite Art

The problems of how crossdressers are depicted on paperback covers.

February 18, 2008

Mister Sister

Novel about a feminine gay male with an Eric Stanton cover.

January 29, 2008

Happy, Happy

The heart aching beauty of male androgyny.

December 25, 2007

Christmas angel boy

Pansexual virtual Christmas card: soft androgynous gay Renaissance angel boy.

December 13, 2007

Letting Go

Of certain specialized erotic appetites.

December 5, 2007

On Butch Lovers

Loving a masculine man but wanting a feminine guy.

December 1, 2007

On Being Pleasing

Giving and accepting pleasure is often confused with simple notion of erotic power exchange.

What is Feminine?

Gender qualities are independent of genetics and biology.

November 26, 2007

A Boy in Girl's Pants

Genderfuck dressing seems to leave me helplessly in lust.

November 18, 2007

Killer Drag Queens

Transvestites are not inferior to transsexuals: crossdressing is as legitimate as SRS.

November 12, 2007

Voice and Motion

The erotic power of androgyny is in performance. It is beyond physical beauty.

November 5, 2007

Masculinity / Femininity

Regardless of reason I seem helplessly drawn to the unmasculine.

October 22, 2007

Crossdresser Dreams

An odd, perhaps transitory erotic bias toward gay male transvestites.

October 16, 2007

Aloneness

Here in Durham, NC I don't see myself finding romantic companionship with a transgender person or gay male femme guy or anyone at all.

September 26, 2007

In Praise of the Pretty Male

Social rejection and confusion that conventional society feels in the presence of men who have qualities often thought of as female or feminine.

August 24, 2007

Ultimate Gender

Man and woman both male and female above and outside conventional singular gender boundaries.

February 1, 2007

The Ugliest Girl in the World

Chance is an artist and a male who wears dresses. His beauty may seem ugliness to the dull majority which is their blind loss.

January 9, 2007

Male Girlfriend

Loving gay male femme guys and crossdressers and transvestitites.

October 24, 2006

Female Supremacy & Gender Identity

Gynosupremacy and transsexuals. How would a transgendered woman fit in a gynarchy or matriarchy.

September 23, 2006

Casa Susanna

A secret save haven for crossdressers.

September 7, 2006

South African Transsexuals

Gender DynamiX, a new lobby group for transgendered people.

July 26, 2006

Heterosexual Men & Transsexuals

Some straight men feel a silly need to prove that they aren't attracted to transpersons.

July 10, 2006

Transvestite Acceptance

Crossdressers may find themselves as outsiders and freaks even as transsexuals slowly gain social and legal rights.

July 3, 2006

Haughty Transsexuals

Legal gender identity of post-operative transsexuals.

June 20, 2006

Softly, Gently, the Beauty of the Transgendered Manifests Itself

Gender outsiders, gender outlaws: they are lovely without ever knowing what they look like.

June 19, 2006

Boy ... Girl ... ?

Average Americans are still uncomfortable with males and females who don't seem to conform to gender norms.

June 17, 2006

A Transsexual Isn't a Fetish Object

I love my mtf girlfriend and it isn't because she is transsexual but that I love the human being.

March 8, 2006

I Am a Bad Person (& Worse!)

Hateful comments from some gay man who despises transsexuals, men who love them and is a sissyphobic homosexual.

March 7, 2006

Slim Gilt Souls: Inescapable

I didn't intend to love femme gay guys: the desire proved inevitable and delightful.

December 24, 2005

Between Passion & Purity

The joy of loving the gender queer, an explanation of my androgyno-phillia.

December 21, 2005

In Praise of the Artificial

Transgendered males work magic as they redefine, color and present and stylize their surface qualities.

December 3, 2005

Transgender Day of Remembrance

Protecting, loving and caring for transsexuals, transvestites and intersex persons.

November 28, 2005

What is Pansexual Sodomy?

The exalted beauty of the genderqueer, hermaphrodites, transvestites, transsexuals, femme gay guys and being free of simple images of gender norms.

November 21, 2005

Transsexual Discrimination Verdict Stands

Phillip or Philecia Barnes treated unfairly by Cincinattie police department says jury and courts.

November 8, 2005

Post Pomo Sexuality

Transgendered and transsexual persons face a life alone and misunderstood if they live in the wrong part of the world.

October 2, 2005

Ask the Pansexual Sodomite

Need advice? What can I tell you about pansexuality, being gay, loving transgendered and femme gay guys. This is your chance to gain an insight into my mind.

September 25, 2005

God Hates Transsexuals?

Christians attack gender reassignment surgery. Say no transgender person has the right to be a priest or minister.

September 24, 2005

Loving Someone Transgendered

My love for my mtf male girlfriend, hermaphrodite, transsexual or whatever she decides she is.

August 30, 2005

Alex in a dress

A photograph of my transgendered male girlfriend.

August 4, 2005

On loving a drama queen

My ex-lover overdramatized his life, unable to see the comedy and it killed him.

July 25, 2005

On internet friendship

Making and maintaining friendships made on the web.

July 6, 2005

Pristine Ann Gee

Man of two worlds, transvestite freedom fighter comes for a visit.

June 26, 2005

Boys wth naked ankles

Androgynous bodies and clothing.

May 26, 2005

Pansexual Richard & Transsexual Alex

Pansexuality and transsexuality mingle beautifully

May 21, 2005

So it is lawful to discriminate against transsexuals?

Tracy Nichole Sturchio, formerly known as Ronald Sturchio, sued the Department of Homeland Security.

May 18, 2005

Alex(andra)

Photograph of my male girlfriend, transsexual lover - you choose the damn label.

March 29, 2005

Male girlfriend?

A quick note about my knew girly boy, femme guy, transgendered lover.

March 14, 2005

Boys wearing aprons

Pretty youth wearing a woman's apron.

March 13, 2005

Feminine gay men & protectiveness (supplementary note)

Feminine gay males are often brutalized and bullied when they are young.

November 20, 2004

Even the homeliest androgyne

I'd rather date a transvestite or androgynous gay male than a straighting acting man.

November 18, 2004

Erotic adaptiveness and limitation

Temporarily at least I'm only able to find gay transvesties sexuall appealing.

November 16, 2004

Webcam romance & the fool in the mirror

Falling in love with a transsexual on a web cam and laughing at how funny and foolish my sexuality can be.

November 15, 2004

The (Nelly) Boy Seekers

Paperback cover with a drawing - not a very good one - nelly young gay men on the beach.

September 23, 2004

Bisexuality as a range

Bisexuality is more common, subtle and confusing than the average monosexual gay or straight person thinks.

September 17, 2004

Scarves, vests, boots, ponytails

Clothing fetishes, erotic associations with certain garments particularly with gay men and transvestites.

September 13, 2004

Gay men who want to be more feminine

Does my friend really want to have a sex change or is he tired of gay male sissyphobia.

September 9, 2004

Gay men who want to look more masculine

I like feminine gay guys. Pity so many gay men are worried about looking manly, masculine, butch.

September 8, 2004

Hijra rights

India's transgendered population are often called eunuchs, they call themselves hijras and deserve the civil righs.

September 6, 2004

Are you a transvestite's Mr. Right?

Gay crossdressers look for honorable, decent lovers. Most men who date transvestites are in denial of their true sexuality

August 30, 2004

On talking to a virtual friend for the first time

Knew him on the web for years, finally I called him on the telephone and we chatted and had a good time.

August 28, 2004

Choosing to not have gender reassignment surgery

One transgendered person explains why he decided to not have sex reassignment surger.

July 5, 2004

To Hell with crossdressers

Average gay men reject crossdressers and transvestites.

June 24, 2004

How to woo & win a transvestite?

Pity there are so few feminist transvestites, crossdressers who can accept that they are male.

June 23, 2004

Online crushes, virtual romance

Danger of gay men falling love from profiles, online chatting, personal ads, instant message charmers, seductive webloggers and Live Journal

June 6, 2004

Unrealized sexuality: pansexuality

Being a pansexual man every kind of person, every type of body, every fluke of biology is worthy of love and lust.

June 3, 2004

The pretty guy wasn't ...

The pleasure of confusing a woman for a man or a guy for a girl.

May 23, 2004

Unrealized sexuality: gay transvestites

If I had a gay boyfriend who crossdresser, a queer transvestite what would I want him to be like?

May 5, 2004

Books for, about transgendered persons

Short list of books dealing with transgendered issues, sexuality

April 28, 2004

Unrealized sexuality: hermaphrodites

Confessing and exploring my erotic wish to have had an experience with a hermaphrodite, ladyboy, use whatever term captures the double genderedness for you.

April 23, 2004

Westboro Baptist Church at Gwen / Eddie Araujo trial

Fred Phelp's Westboro Baptist church arrives to celebrate the murder of Eddit Araujo

April 19, 2004

A boy with a girl's breasts

Self exploration and insight in to the erotic appeal that biological androgny has for me as a man

April 17, 2004

Transsexuals, lust & erotic idealism

Yes, I find pre-op transsexuals sexually arousing but I'm given more to idealistic desire than objectifying eroticism

April 14, 2004

Those lovely ladyboys (and my neo-puritanism)

As much as I love transgendered gay people and transsexuals I dare not let myself lust after they differently gendered status

April 12, 2004

You're like some vestigial heterosexual!

Boy wives, female husbands, male girlfriends does that make me a heterosexual homosexual gay man?

April 3, 2004

History of a Manhattan drag bar

Photographic documentary history of a New York City gay bar noted for its drag queens

March 2, 2004

Why do you like girlish guys?

My joy in genderqueer guys, gender outlaw males, feminine gay men, androgyny and androgynous sexuality

February 19, 2004