Androgyny & artificiality
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Iím not sure where my strong conversion to androgyny comes from. When I was first out it was the nelly boys who took me into their bed. It might have been adaptation. But the earliest beautiful young men I can remember were all in a fey way. And my childhood upbringing biased me against strong manliness which may have pushed me in the other direction.
Androgynous women are lovely. One of my aesthetic-erotic barriers in appreciating the surface of many women is that their hips seem too wide.
Actually I donít see long hair on a guy as feminine. I just plain love long hair. It registers even when I see a butch guy.
Yes, I value artificiality for its own pleasurable sake.