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Not that it ever wants to but semen will have to wait.

Friday Charles, my ex-lover, signed a quitclaim dead on the house we bought together.

For me this is (as the Pet Shop Boys sang it) Liberation. No longer can he just bust in whenever he feels like it. How many evening with Alex did not reach happy fruition because of the sound of Charles' car pulling into the driveway.

I'd been trying to get him to do this for months. But Charles had his nutty schemes.

The property includes a rickety old garage we call the outbuilding (since his cars were never actually parked inside). More properly it might be called the temple of discards and refuse.

Charles had plans of living in the outbuilding. I knew this was a bad idea: his basic hunger for sociability would leave him unable to not show up at just the wrong moment.

Adding a functioning bathroom to the outbuilding would've been impossibly expensive. So he also wanted on demand access to the one in the house.

While is body's needs would've been legitimate it would've merely sabotaged many erotic enjoyments. Not to mention simple quiet and privacy.

Finally he became reasonable enough to let me just pay him to take his name off the property. I could've taken him to court and saved at least a couple of thousand dollars. But I'd rather give him more money and do it civilly. Though it isn't easy I'm trying to remain his friend and advisor.

For the first time in my entire life I live in my own home. I'm not sure that I'm glad to be here. But here I am.

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Well, Richard:

As a long time (and still) writer of gay erotica-porn-mainstream novels and short-story collections — I once wrote some of those Greenleaf Classics you once commented upon (check out my website http://www.williammaltese.com — it’s not particularly up to date at the moment, but there’s at least a pertinent bio by way of additional introduction), I just wanted you to know that, having run across your blog, I find it downright informative, interesting, and keep-to-it-buddy! It’s nice to find a gay guy involved in an ongoing, open, and candid(ly) honest dialogue.

Now that I’ve “found you”, I look forward to checking in more often.

William Maltese (CALIFORNIA CREAMIN’; SUMMER SWEAT; WHEN SUMMER COMES; SS MANN HUNT; A CONSPIRACY OF RAVENS; circuSex; A SLIP TO DIE FOR; THAI DIED; SLOVAKIAN BOY … et al)

Congratulations on your freedom. I think that is where we all want to be in one way or the other…in a state of freedom. As pleasant as it is to be bound to someone emotionally, physically, spiritually…we always want freedom.

Your feelings?

Please share your feelings about Freedom!.
Thanks,
Richard

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