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Pansy Paradise

Cuteness meets homophobia.

Rice Queen

Developing an increasing focus on Asian women and Asian-American males and females.

My Giant Testicle Sac

It grew huge when filled with fluid.

The Accuser and the Patsy

Some passionate romantic relationships seem to persist as a series of unfairly unequal dialogs.

Christmas angel boy

Pansexual virtual Christmas card: soft androgynous gay Renaissance angel boy.

I'm Just a Tender Fool

Being soft, open and vulnerable is so damned exhausting and draining.

Just How Do You Explain Demons?

Being an atheist in a family of fundamentalist Baptist Christians.

Why Tell the Truth When You Can Lie?

Seemingly ordinary conventional people fabricate falsehoods for inexplicable reasons.

My Bra Question

Did the presentation of female breasts changed in the late part of the 20th century?

I Don't Exist

After decades of not having it I find myself needing to acquire proof of identity.

PSO = Phone Sex Operator

Aesthetics and philosophy of kinky telephone sex fantasies.

That Funny Female Brain

Bad, very sexist research tries to preserve and defend stereotypes of female norms, treating women as nothing more than the products of their hormones. Bad gender research by a female scientist.

The Irony of Manhood?

Men who seek a special vocabulary of manliness because of their fear of not living up to antiquated American gender identity norms.

Google to Fix Sodomite

Luti, mithli junsiya and other Arabic words for gay and homosexual.

Girls Are Goofy

The strange persistance of sexist gender stereotypes and cliched male / female roles.

On Needing Something New

Dullness leaves us hungering for novelty, personal revision, a feeling of fresh revelation.

Conservative Cult of Manliness

Right wing academic men worry about their masculinity and the decline of the American macho man.

Where Do I Live?

Being unable to remember how to get home has been a recurring nightmare of mine for many years.

Kindness

Isn't it surprising how many good, charitable men and women there are?

Perchance to Relax ... ?

I'm one weary sodomite and need to unwind and feel amused; seek some cheering pleasure. Ideally a prose work that will spark my brain and heart.

A Directory of Erotic Pluralism

Listings for qenderqueer persons, fetishists, kinky folk and anyone interested in erotic life.

Diminished Conversations

Online talk: is it poorer and less than the carefully writter letters of the past.

Courage

Do you think you are fearless and brave? I don't have that illusion about myself.

Frugality and Diligence

My failings in being thrifty and in meeting my own personal goals.

Boredom With a Broom

The cheerless chores of cleaning your house.

Logic, Reason, Clarity, Empathy, Passion, Intuition, Individuality,

A vain and pretentious statement of my life's goals and philosophy.

Superfluous Benignity

Days when you feel unearned, unjustified joy in being alive.

Day of the Women

The pleasure of female friends and women pop and jazz singers.

Wasted Time, Wasted Lives

Artists whose careers die because they lack focus and drive.

A Nuclear Weapon Had Just Been Launched At Us

A nightmare of being on the Seaview from Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea.

Sexual Labels are Fun(ny)

Sexual identity nonce words can be entertaining to play with. Erotic orientation labels are hard to define.

Liberation from Television

Without TV you must seek enjoyment instead of mere distraction.

VoIP: Gmail Talk Beats Yahoo! Messenger

Google's web telephone exceeds Yahoo's in voice quality and I liked my Plantronics headset.

Turnip Greens & Pie

My insomniac hallucinations of imaginary Johnny Cash songs.

Mourning the loss of a friend

Recovering from the death of Charles Alan Cagle of Durham, Raleigh and Asheville North Carolina.

On patient compliance

Geodon almost gave my bipolar friend a happy life. I suspect that when he stopped taking it he made the foolish choice that took him to his death.

On Pain

My ex-lover's addiction to opiates and his failure with psychiatric medications.

Er ... well ... I am a guy ...

Gay queer pansexual sodomite is male even if he doesn't normally define himself via his gender

Ill, weary, blue

Falling out of love with your lover is a cruel, hard thing.

Circumcision as a crime

Call for circumcision to be criminalized and all doctors who perform circumcisions to be arrested.

Sensual pleasure in money

I have enough money to buy some compact discs and a new computer. Sheer simple pleasure in being able to pay the bills and enjoy life.

I'm a happily gay atheist

Religious conservatives who attack websites run by gay men and atheists.

Gay popular culture links wanted

Asking for people to provide links to web sites and essays on gay pop culture.

Nugatory romantic cheer?

Hoping someone will suggest a few recent romantic comedies to rent from Netflix.

Farting George Bush Doll

Doll farts when you pull President Bush's finger.

We're suckers for a hard-luck case

Gay dog lovers: Sen. Thomas Duane; Ellen DeGeneres; k.d. lang; Harvey Fierstein; Isaac Mizrahi Todd Oldham; Thom Filicia

Gay men, straight men & sports

Sports fags: gay men participate in sports, straight men just talk about games and players.

Louisiana may criminalize saggy pants

Louisiana politicians prose making wearing certain kinds of clothing a legal as well as a fashion crime

Back from DNS limbo

Thanks to the fine folks at JaguarPC who host my websites and weblogs for making my server change easy.

Online writing: confession, personal truths, validation

In writing about ourselves on the web are we seeking a chance to confess, affirm ourselves, validate our lives?

Queer Quizzes

Site with online tests, quizzes for gay men to take

What's Your Spiritual Type?

Beliefnet's quizzes and tests don't want to admit I'm an atheist

They are all true Christians

American Protestant Christians think they know the truth however conservative or liberal they may be

Exploit fear of gay marriage for $13.97

Buy homophobia on Google's Froogle for cheap

Secret Christian manuscripts

Woman claims to know the truth, the Bible is more accurate than Homer, she has the manuscripts!

Insane Christian comments

Biblical accuracy, Homer's Epic poetry and oddball comments from Christians

I'm Mychal Judge?

Which famous gay person are you website, quiz, test says I'm Roman Catholic Mychal Judge

Websites with product numbers?

Found that my website had been reviewed on Amazon

Labels for anti-theism, anti-quackery, anti-nonsense

How do you label your atheism, opposition to theology, saucer cranks, new age twits?

Silly Euro-Pop, Dance-Pop?

Suggestions of entertaining dance pop, Eurodance internet radio

No more cable TV, no more

Canceled my cable tv service, television was too expensive, took up too much time, a waste of my life

A Gay Friendster?

Downelink is an online social network community like Friendster for gay men and women

Tickled by kind words

Used booklisting metasearch engine praises one of my weblogs

Howdy!

Greetings to the people who read my personal weblog

Congratulations Transsensual

Personal weblog of a post-op transsexual woman in the Middle East

Why don't European lesbians enjoy football?

Asian not Oswald Spengler's strange comments about European and American Lesbians

Queer bedding

Bedding for gay couples and singles including cotton king sized duvet cover and 2 pillow sham

Gay fiction vs. the Aztec Mummy

Amazon's keyword searches bring weird silly results when looking for DVDs

Micro-bloggies?

Recognition for interesting and worthwhile obscure weblogs

Queer cola for queer energy

Soda beverage aimed at gay people

Hey, you! Don't be so shy

People who don't leave their real email address

Oh just write something, dammit

Clear and invidual weblog writing and writers

Whose lips do you want?

Plastic surgeon says men want movie star's lips

Queer assimilation

Many gay men and women want to be just like heterosexuals, homosexuals who aren't individuals

Confessions of a Male Prostitute

Early gay pseudo-erotica, the bad homoerotic prose of the pre-Stonewall days

Really the answer is none

Silly quiz found at Swish Cottage

Hung over?

Picture of a pretty girl drinking champaigne

God will smite me yet

I'm an atheist, which enemy of the Bush administration are you?

Queer weblogger listing

Gender outlaws, gender-queer, gay men, crossdressers, transvestites, bisexuals are welcome to list their weblog, blog, online diary or live journal

Christmas Day spam

Spammers spam us heavily on Christmas day hoping to take advantage of lonley, depressed people

In praise of pretty gay women

I'm a gay man who finds lesbians more attractive than straight women

These are some of my favorite things (that I have written)

Pansexual man's weblog writings on sexuality, feminine gay men, crossdressers, coming out

Gender Genie is on, not in the bottle

Gender Genie is heterosexist and sexist, laughable attempt to gauge sex by prose, writing style, word choice

Rick Santorum is shit (literally)

Rick Santorum is an evil shit who must go away or at least be laughed at

Damned Christians & well intentioned straight people

If Christians don't like queers well I say fuck them in the ass

The Right Reverend Frederick Eikerenkoetter, Th.B., D.Sc.L., Ph.D.

Rev. Ike a lovable old fraud of a black prosperity preacher, almost as funny as Dr. Gene Scott

Happiness is a weak memory

I find it hard to remember things that annoyed me or pissed me off

Boyishness is more manner and mind than age

As a gay man attracted to boyishness I'd say it is more of a way of responding to and looking at life and the world.

Fundies learn their hate in church

Damned Christian Fundamentalists are the supreme block to gay marriage in the US

Mr. U Lik Balls writes

Meaningless, nonsensical homophobic email about fags and werewolf cults and balls

Lester Maddox

Lester Maddox an ignorant governor of Georgia, J.B. Stoner, The Thunderbolt, racism, anti-Semitism and George Lincoln Rockwell the American Fuehrer

Misanthropy, Atheism, Moralizing, Luck

Misanthropy, postmodern moralizing, total atheism, luck of escaping your earlier selves.

My pill will give you a bigger cock & biceps

Rant against supplement hucksters

Give me money, honey!

Indignant demand for money from writer quoted in one of my weblogs

Niceness (fake and genuine)

Niceness as true kindness is worthwhile, as a form of pleading, social grease or hypocrisy is disgusting.

My attempt at an online self-questionnaire

Pansexual sodomite, Richard Evans Lee tries to write his own online quiz for his weblog, blog questionnaire exploring himself

A couple of silly online tests

Online Penis Quiz, Weblog Twin Test

Web serendipity

Finding people you know or have know via the web, serendipity, synchronicity

Amorous Gullibility

Richard Lee's weblogs about gullibility and homophobia

Gay movies, queer novels?

Have a queer movie or gay novel to recommend?

Queer Blogs & Weblogs

Gay, LGBT, queer, homo, fag, homosexual, faggot bloggers, blogs, webloggers and weblogs, weblog, blog. Which looks too much like spam keywords. But they aren't.

When you get disgusted with your weblog

Ugly minded men who search the web and wind up at Pansexual Sodomite.

Didn't like Zoloft? Take some Paxil

Psychiatry is credulous bogus science. Zoloft , Paxil, SSRIs are evil, damnable.

Land of opportunity, eh?

Forcing a foreigner to work without pay!

Bright = gay = humanist = fag?

If the brights are like the gay men will they become the new fags? Brights Movement

I'm going to Hell (are you?)

Fundamentalist Christian pest who sign your website's guestbook.

Time spent blogging?

Mr. Blogger, how much time do you spend writing in your weblog? How often do you blog? Is blogging an addiction?

Self-insight & being bonedheaded anyway

Weblogs teach us that we can be self-aware and behave stupidly anyway.

Hearing from folks you've mentioned in your weblog

People finding weblog posts that mention their name and their books, movies, music.

Life isn't fair, get over it

People suffer and die every day, more than died on 9/11.

Overimaginative weblog moment

Freezing when wondering about how a weblog reader will interpretate my reply.

So, I'm a 'celebrity' . . . ?

Finding myself listed as a celebrity on a thinly disguised online shopping site.

White Face for the Black Man?

Just imagine a TV show to teach black men how to act as though they were white (whatever that would mean): White Face for the Black Man?

Comfortable misery

Comfort in pain, familiarity in misery

Childhood, overrated

Childhood is overrated: chronological maturity has it's joys.

Blogging for truth, blogging for pleasure

Weblogging for fun, weblogs and honesty, fear of blogging, why have a blog. Why I write my weblog.