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It isn’t always easy to have an erection. At least now than at age eighteen.
It is great to be the shoulder, to have the soft one rest his head on your chest. But lonely to feel that your strength can’t be recompensed from the bottom. Being ‘the man’ can be a joy. Living aloft and alone can drain you of all your supposed power.
Sweet is the surrender that empowers you. The devotion that brings out the best in you.
Manhood isn’t in ruling or owning. It is in establishing a sane balance. As is femininity. Each are simply different means of achieving the same goal.
Gender qualities are different forms of beauty. Not about better or worse, superior or inferior. If you can’t see the delight then you are best neuter and irrelevant. Don’t poison our happiness.