Is being short unsexy?
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Short fat and dumpy is a common description of a sexually undesirable person. You never read or hear tall, fat and dumpy. The implication makes you wonder why you've never seen personal ads saying to femmes, fatties or shorties.
I've often expressed preference for shorter guys. First guy I slept with was 5'8", left me with nostalgia and it is a great height for holding someone in your lap (I'll confess I've never wanted to be held in a lap). If lovers were available from Amazon.com - and who knows what Jeff Bezos' next innovation will be? - I'm sure I'd have focused list of criteria.
In real life I've never really cared how tall a guy is. Top of my list is intelligent eyes and even that isn't a must. A slightly bewildered doe-eyed look has its charms.
The tall are favored. While I've bitched about short steps I've never wished I weren't 6'3". Though I did feel a little dashed the day a short cutie told the other short cutie he was with that he liked guys about his own height best.
Guess being tall is another part of being masculine.
When you are looking for a guy do you want your head to have to tilt up if only a little bit?